Are You Looking For Couples Counselling?

Feeling as though your relationship is falling apart?

Feeling like you are being taken for granted by your partner?

Feeling as though the spark in your relationship is gone?

You deserve to be loved.

Here at Find My Therapist, we help couples find love, fulfilment, and joy in their relationship through couple's counselling that is tailor-fit just for you. We offer couple's counselling wherever you may be in the United Kingdom and even online.


Stephen helped save our marriage. Before we came to see Stephen me and my husband was on the verge of splitting up for good. Along with couple and individual counselling I can honestly say we are both in a better place and we have our marriage back on track. If not better! Would highly recommend. Thank you

Louise JohnsonSt Helen's 

Why do you have to focus on your relationship?

Picture this: you're walking in the park, holding hands while walking, as your arms sway together in a single motion. As you laughed together, very happy in each other's presence, you look at your partner and think, "I am so lucky to have this person by my side."

Maybe you've felt that before and want to bring it back. Maybe you've never felt that at all with your partner but know that, deep down, you are capable of having that relationship.

You may be thinking, "Yeah, okay, I do want that relationship, but is having a good relationship really important? So many people survive even if they are alone."

According to Northwestern Medicine, there are 5 benefits to having a healthy relationship:

  1. Less stress - couples in a loving, fulfilling relationship possess social and emotional support that can be a great buffer against stress.
  2. Better healing - not only can your partner remind you to take your medicine--they can also give you the emotional support needed to recover from injuries.
  3. Healthier Behaviours - healthy relationships also lead to having healthier lifestyles in couples, as they can encourage each other to eat a healthy diet, exercise, and not smoke--and apart from that, having great social and emotional support may prevent some from having unhealthy behaviours such as stress eating and binge smoking.
  4. Greater Sense of purpose - being in a loving relationship can give a person a sense of well-being and purpose--that you are part of something greater than yourself and improving the world in some way.
  5. Longer Life - having healthy relationships makes a huge impact on avoiding early death, and the lack of social relationships has the same effect on health as smoking 15 cigarettes per day.

Right now, you may be thinking, "Okay, sounds good. But what makes a good relationship to begin with? Isn't it something we can just work on as a couple without anyone's intervention?"

Good relationships, apart from love, possess the following traits:

  • You must trust and respect each other (despite shortcomings, each other's past, and socioeconomic abilities) and know that, at the end of the day, you are giving each other your best.
  • You must appreciate each other - according to Dale Carnegie in his book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People", many wives leave their husbands due to lack of appreciation and showing appreciation is essential to any relationship.
  • You must listen to each other - as partners and equals, couples must take each other's perspective into account.
  • You must make each other feel loved and important - learning your partner's love language and how they express and would like to receive affection matters in making them feel fulfilled in the relationship.
  • You must be open and honest with each other - communicating with your partner without judgement is something healthy couples have and it would make you feel supported and at home.
  • You must encourage each other to grow and flourish - healthy couples encourage each other to be the best versions of themselves and not hold each other back.

A couples counsellor can help you address your issues personally and as a couple through allowing you to make sense of why your issues are there, and, subsequently, how to resolve them. Therapists employ different strategies and techniques to understand the human psyche, and, in turn, help people be the best version of themselves.

Of course, being in therapy means that you and your therapist will have to work closely together to address the issues that affect your relationship with your partner.

We have a selection of therapies fit for your needs, such as your location, budget, gender of the therapist, and whether you want the therapy to be online or in-person.

We care about your well-being and we want you to have the most fulfilling and loving relationship so you can be the best you can be, starting today.

You might ask, "Why do we need to use Find My Therapist? Can't we just go to some random therapist? That would be easier."

Finding a good couple's counsellor is difficult. You may be wasting your money on someone who is not even qualified to do therapy. In some locations, finding a therapist at all would be a challenge, and these therapists may not be vetted for their qualifications.

Let's say you find a therapist, but maybe their price is not right for you. Maybe, just maybe, they also can't fulfill some of your needs. 

Maybe you would be more comfortable with having a female therapist. 

Maybe you would need a therapist who has experience in handling trauma. 

Maybe you would need a therapist who has experience in the loss of a child.

Maybe you need a therapist that specialises in infidelity.

Or, maybe, a therapist who has experience with clients who came from divorced families.

Here at Find My Therapist, we will do all the hard work for you by matching you with a therapist who is tailor-fit for your needs.

Why choose us?

Find My Therapist is the first-ever service to select a Counsellor tailor-fit for your needs!

We will match you with a Counsellor so you don't have to think about it. We have a questionnaire you can fill out so we can assess who would be a good counsellor for you.

We can match you with a male or female therapist. We are aware of the difference of perspective held by different genders and know that people may be more comfortable with the perspective and care of a particular gender over the other.

We can even match you with an online therapist. We know that some people may be more comfortable with doing their therapy online. If you are also a British person outside the UK and seek British perspective in your problem, having online sessions may be more feasible for you.

For some, nothing beats face-to-face interaction with their therapist. But finding a therapist where you are may be challenging. Find My Therapist can match you with therapists in your area so you don't have to go far for professional therapy sessions.

Unsatisfied with your therapist? We can match you with a different therapist, or, if you would rather not avail of our service anymore, we can give you a money-back guarantee good for 30 days after your first booking.

How find my therapist works?

Step 1: Screen

In the first stage, we will be giving you a form to fill up on your history, location, preferences for your therapist, and your desired specialisation for your therapist.

Step 2: Assess

We will perform a thorough assessment of the form you have submitted to us to give us a fuller picture of your needs and concerns.

Step 3: Match

After the assessment, we will match you with a therapist that is tailor-fit, just for you. We will consider your history, location, desired specialisation, and anything you may mention in the screening stage to give us the best match for you and your partner.

Step 4: Begin

Upon matching you with a therapist, our system will allow you to book a session with them at your desired time, place, and medium (in-person or online).

Step 5: Review

After the session, you can leave a review for your therapist: whether they were helpful, insightful, accommodating, or not. You can choose to make this public or keep it private through our system.

Step 6: Evaluate

Think we need to improve our services? Want to claim that money-back guarantee? We're open to all feedback and suggestions on our evaluation stage.

Here is what people have to say about our services:



"Stephen helped save our marriage. Before we came to see Stephen me and my husband was on the verge of splitting up for good. Along with couple and individual counselling I can honestly say we are both in a better place and we have our marriage back on track. If not better! Would highly recommend. Thank you."

-Louise Johnson



"The counselling I received from Stephen has been paramount in me moving forward and enjoying life and my relationships with all of those around me to the full.

I cant thank Stephen enough, he has given me a much clearer outlook and the tools to help me manage very difficult thoughts, feelings and emotions.

His approach and professionalism is what make him great at getting his information across, enabling me to understand and work on what he has taught me very comfortably and confidently. He put me at ease the moment I met him, which under the circumstances of meeting is a must!

I would highly recommend Stephen to anyone should they need the help. 

Thank you!"

An​​​​na Olson blogger

You deserve to be in a loving, fulfilling relationship

Going to therapy and working through your issues together will stop you from fighting constantly, feeling unappreciated, and feeling stuck in a relationship you don't want to be in.

Going to therapy will help you appreciate each other better, support each other's wants and needs, and build loyalty and trust with each other.

If you want to leave that toxic relationship behind and start anew with your partner, book a couple's therapy session today.